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"One of the most valuable things we can do to heal one another
is listen to each other's stories."

Rebecca Falls

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Bessi
location:
Australia

Saturday, 31. July 2010 20:40 

Hello all! smiley image! It has been some time since I have opened up to the confidence cafe but I suppose I am here now. I must be going through some significant changes in my life because there are a few things happening to me that indicate the changes. I suppose I will journey on and pass through the changes and continue on my journey in life but I am noticing changes more now! smiley image! smiley image!
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Angel
location:

not specified


Saturday, 31. July 2010 11:58 

smiley image! Hi ladies, just checking in
are you thinking positive thoughts!
for the first time ever on Friday I went to see Toy Story 3 in 3D at the cinema.
takes a bit to get used to the specs.

It was a really good film!
has anybody else seen a 3D film?

Have a good weekend smiley image! smiley image!
hopefully cu all soon on here.
lots of love from Angel x smiley image!
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Inesia
location:
SF - Bay

Friday, 30. July 2010 08:55 

smiley image! smiley image! smiley image! Good Morning, Good Day, and Pleasant Weekend to all my Esteem-ed Sisters at SE. LOL to all and may all your hurdles be small ones -- ones that all of us, being beautiful with focused confidence, will be sure to overcome. smiley image! smiley image! smiley image!
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Angie
location:
uk

Friday, 30. July 2010 01:19 

Morning Girls smiley image! Well i hope everyone is feeling ok and ready for the weekend. Dont let any hurdles get in your way and think positive that you will have a gerat weekend smiley image! I have managed to get on the bike today to work and you would not beleive how better i feel this morning. just wish i felt like this all the time but im getting there slowly but surely. Have a great day all smiley image! smiley image!
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Angie
location:
UK

Thursday, 29. July 2010 06:32 

Hi all, and what a better day im having and hope that all you ladies are having a good day too smiley image! thanks to Inesia's kind words i feel so much better about myself and it is lovely to know that we all can lift spirits somehow to make others have a better day smiley image! smiley image! Keep thinking positive thoughts and you will get through the days a little better
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Inesia
location:
SF - By the Bay

Wednesday, 28. July 2010 09:51 

smiley image! smiley image! smiley image! Hello Ladies!! I always have Confidence Cafe to look forward to hearing from my Esteem-ed Sisters. If I may, I/we are here to listen to anyone who feels like discussing matters of the heart. I have, on several occasions felt like an ostrich by burying myself like a claustophobic hermit. You will come out of it when you feel it is right and focused. LOL ~ from smiley image! smiley image!
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Angie
location:
UK

Wednesday, 28. July 2010 01:05 

Hi Girls, feeling really low this morning and dont know what to do with myself. Why is it that i feel everyone takes me for a fool and that im useless
I pull the whole world in around me then it takes me so long to get out again. smiley image!argggh i feel dreadful !!!
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anna
location:

not specified


Tuesday, 27. July 2010 18:13 

I guess it's been over a week or so since I've been on. Feeling kind of blah. I guess that's why I haven't been on. Haven't felt like "talking" about it.
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tricia
location:
Ireland

Monday, 26. July 2010 16:27 

HI all , and hope everyone is feeling good . Havent been on the site for ages as I moved house and internet down . Same as confidence at the moment I am afraid to say .
Is it only me or when a disagreement occurs between a couple is it always the guy that wins , whatever he says is fact but what ever I say is well not fact in his eyes , rubbish I would think .

Have to get strong somehow , stop feeling so flipping inadaquate and worse sad. smiley image!
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Inesia
location:
SF - by the Bay

Monday, 26. July 2010 14:25 

smiley image! smiley image! smiley image! Hello and Hope that everyone of my Esteem'd Sisters had a very enjoyable, if not relaxing, weekend!! Most interesting for us, we had to do the[ugh!]laundry and clear clutter. By the way, I wish to welcome the new-est-newcomers. smiley image! smiley image! smiley image!
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Sherry
location:

not specified


Monday, 26. July 2010 07:29 

I'm back. Just need to get this monster paper off today. My anxiety has been pretty manageable. I picked up my niece from my father's last Friday. Boy, did my anxiety kick in after visiting him. I can't believe what a selfish, self-centered man he is. He has no idea or interest for that matter, in his children's lives. Never has, never will. Chose to take my brother and his daughter in, and now wants to pawn them off on someone else. He created the mess (enabling my brother), he should clean it up. Makes me crazy. I thought I had all this behind me. Now I know why I have anxiety. Oh boy! smiley image! My poor niece lives with 3 adults and none of them know how to be a parent. She lacks so much self-esteem. I'm trying to work with her, but 2 days a month doesn't even make a dent. What am I suppose to do, report it to CPS. smiley image! Something has to be done. My siblings won't help at all. Oh well, back to my paper and hopefully back to working on my SE once the paper is off. Wish me luck! smiley image!
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Angie
location:
UK

Monday, 26. July 2010 06:30 

Hi girls, hope everyone is ok and in a positive mood today. i am so pleased i found the website and i have felt lots better in the few days i have been on here. Hi Marion , welcome to the cafe smiley image! There are a lots of positive vibes for everyone to share and you will feel so much better for just chatting. Have a great day all Ang smiley image!
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marion
location:
glasgow

Monday, 26. July 2010 06:04 

hi all im very new to this, looking forward to reading all your comments and thinking positive thoughts about the future smiley image!
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Angie
location:
UK

Sunday, 25. July 2010 15:27 

Hi Girls, just dropping in after a long weekend. Felt a lot better about myself today so feeling pretty good at the moment smiley image! smiley image! smiley image! Thanks for your offer of the email Inesia, i will be getting in contact for sure smiley image! Emily, hope your feeling good about your Wedding, keep thinking positive and hope you got your vases that you were shopping for!! Your wedding day will be fine and we will all be thinking of you on your super special occassion and give you all the praise and encouragement you need smiley image!
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Inesia
location:
SF - Bay

Friday, 23. July 2010 11:27 

smiley image! smiley image! smiley image! Good Morning Ladies!!and Pleasant Weekend!! To Ang, and anyone who would care to email me if they want, it would be a pleasure!! Friends are jewels,important treasure found thru lifes' experiences. I remember hearing that fable sometime ago{actually when I was growing up}. In any case, Pleasant Weekend to everyone!! LOL always ~ smiley image! smiley image! smiley image!
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